Stay supported through every step

Drug and alcohol relapse prevention

Relapse prevention is one of the most important parts of drug and alcohol recovery. Our program gives you the tools, structure, and support to move forward and stay there.

Take a self-assessment or speak to someone now, with no pressure to commit.

A small meeting room where a resident-turned-outpatient sits across from a counsellor. On the table between them is an open folder with notes, a recovery plan, and a pen placed mid-page. The counsellor’s hand is mid-gesture while explaining something. Faces are cropped out, with emphasis on continued professional guidance after initial rehab.

Long-term relapse prevention program

Delivered by people with lived experience

Combines clinical and peer-led supports

Trauma-informed therapy and education

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Support that’s built on experience

Our approach to relapse prevention for alcohol or drug abuse

There’s nothing easy about staying clean, especially when you’re triggered, stressed, or disconnected. That’s why our relapse prevention program is built around ongoing support, practical tools, and people who understand what recovery really takes.

You’ll work closely with your counsellors and community to build a personal relapse prevention plan. This includes therapy, peer support, and skills for managing stress, cravings, and situations that may put your recovery at risk.

  • We deliver practical relapse prevention therapy grounded in lived experience and trauma-informed care.
  • You'll build personalised strategies to help reduce the risk of relapse and manage real-life challenges.
  • Every part of the program is shaped around your long-term recovery goals and your unique path to healing.
What’s included in our support

What’s included in our relapse prevention support

This service helps you prevent relapse by staying grounded, connected, and supported every day of your recovery.

Tools and support you’ll receive

  • Weekly relapse prevention planning sessions with your case manager.
  • Ongoing relapse prevention therapy tailored to your specific needs.
  • Peer support groups for encouragement, insight, and real connection.
  • Practical tools for identifying and managing triggers in daily life.
  • Education on high-risk situations and how to navigate them safely.
  • Structured relapse prevention plan to maintain recovery over time.
Why relapse is so common and so serious

Abstinence isn't easy. Relapse isn't failure.

According to the National Drug Strategy Household Survey, nearly half of all Australians over 14 have used drugs. It’s a reminder of how widespread and serious this risk is.

What relapse actually means

Relapse isn’t just the act of using again: it’s a process that often starts in the mind and body long before substance use begins. It can sneak in slowly through unprocessed emotions, exposure to past triggers, or the gradual breakdown of daily routines and support systems. Understanding this timeline helps us prevent relapse before it escalates. Relapse is more than just drinking or using again. It’s a process that begins long before the moment of use, often with a trigger, thought, or feeling that hasn’t been addressed or supported. Managing relapse in these early phases is essential to staying on your path to recovery.

Common causes and triggers

Stress, shame, grief, exhaustion: these can all lead us back to dangerous patterns. Often, it’s not one major event but a slow build-up of unresolved emotions or life stress that causes us to use. Recognising early warning signs and common relapse triggers is a critical part of every personalised relapse prevention plan.

  • Feeling isolated or misunderstood can increase risk of relapse.
  • Returning to places and things tied to past use can restart the cycle.
  • Lack of routine or support makes it harder to manage cravings.

What relapse feels like in real life

Relapse often begins with subtle mental shifts: feeling numb, disengaged, or hopeless. We might stop doing the things that kept us well, avoid people who care, or fantasise about using again. These are signs of the internal build-up that leads to a lapse. Identifying and naming these feelings gives us a chance to ask for help and stop the slide.

  • Changes in self-talk or thoughts of using are common early signs.
  • You might notice you're avoiding support or skipping routines.
  • You may start justifying the idea that a little won't hurt.

The emotional toll of relapse

Relapse often comes with a wave of shame, like we’ve failed or wasted everything. But those thoughts are lies that addiction tells us. We need to remember that one step back doesn’t undo our growth. Processing relapse with compassion and support helps us stay connected to our recovery, learn what we missed, and prevent future lapses. This also allows us to build new strategies to help us care of yourself physically and emotionally. That might include getting enough sleep, avoiding risky situations, and using coping mechanisms that have worked in the past.

  • A relapse doesn't erase your progress. It's part of the journey.
  • Working through shame helps rebuild your recovery mindset.
  • Naming and processing your feelings helps prevent future lapses.

Why relapse prevention must be ongoing

Relapse prevention isn’t something you do once: it’s a daily commitment to yourself. What works today may not work next year, and that’s normal. Life keeps changing, and so do our needs in recovery. That’s why we keep showing up, adjusting our supports, and asking for help when the old tools stop working.

  • Your relapse prevention plan should evolve with your circumstances.
  • Having strong peer support can make all the difference long term.
  • Realistic, personal goals keep your focus grounded and hopeful.
CONFIDENTIAL SELF-ASSESSMENT TOOL

Worried about your drinking or drug use?

This short, confidential quiz takes less than two minutes and can help you make sense of what’s going on. Choose the category that feels most relevant to you — whether it’s alcohol, drugs, or a mix of concerns — and we’ll guide you through a few simple yes/no questions.

At the end, we’ll let you know if your answers suggest it might be time to consider rehab, and share safe, confidential options for getting started.

Take the quiz now
Programs that support long-term change

The programs we use to help prevent relapse

Relapse prevention doesn’t happen in isolation. It grows from the foundation of consistent care. That’s why we offer a full range of treatment programs, including hospital detox, inpatient treatment, residential rehabilitation, and transitional housing. Every step helps you stabilise, rebuild, and prevent relapse.

Residential program

Live-in rehab with structured support, therapy, and life skills training in a safe, recovery-focused setting.

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Family Program

Education, group support, and counselling to help families understand addiction and support their loved one’s recovery.

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Hader at Home

A fully digital recovery program with daily check-ins, online therapy, and self-guided workbooks for post-rehab care.

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Intensive outpatient program

Structured addiction support with therapy, group sessions, and relapse prevention, designed to fit around daily life.

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Counselling

Trauma-informed therapy, addiction counselling, and family support available in person or via secure online sessions.

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Interventions

Professional support to help families stage a safe, structured intervention and guide their loved one into treatment.

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Executive rehab

Private, one-on-one treatment in a luxury setting with complete discretion and a personalised recovery schedule.

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DVA rehab

Specialised trauma-informed inpatient care for veterans and first responders, fully funded for eligible DVA clients.

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Court-ordered rehab

Structured inpatient program with detox, therapy, and forensic reporting to meet bail or sentencing requirements.

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Transitional housing

Recovery-focused accommodation with therapy, structure, and support to bridge the gap between rehab and independent living.

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Hospital detox

24/7 medically supervised detox in a licensed private hospital, including withdrawal support and psychiatric care.

What to expect when you reach out

Our process for getting started

step 1

Let’s talk

We’ll start with a private, compassionate phone call to understand what’s happening and how we can support you.

step 2

Personalised care planning

Together, we’ll look at your needs, history, risks, and goals. Then we’ll shape a treatment path that’s realistic and respectful of where you’re at.

step 3

Start when you're ready

When it feels right, we’ll help you take the next step, whether that’s detox, residential care, or relapse prevention planning.

We’re here whenever you’re ready – book a call or speak to someone now.

Built around real-life recovery needs

What makes our support different

Most of us here have experienced addiction ourselves. That’s why we don’t offer cookie-cutter advice. We meet you where you’re at and support you with tools that actually work in the messy, difficult moments.

Support from people who truly get it

We've lived through relapse and recovery, and we'll never judge your journey.

Programs shaped around your life

We work with what's real: your job, your family, your fears, your mental health.

Aftercare that actually continues

We don't leave you hanging. Our support keeps going well after discharge.

Tools that feel human, not clinical

Everything we use (from relapse prevention techniques to self-care plans) is grounded in empathy and experience.

Our accreditations and national standards

Accredited by Australia’s health authorities

We’re fully accredited under the NSQHS Standards and regulated by the ACSQHC, so you can trust that our programs meet the highest standards with evidence-based care.


Explore the full range of our services

Rehab programs tailored to your needs

Whether you’re just starting to stabilise or you’ve already experienced a relapse, our services meet you wherever you’re at.

Outpatient rehab

Stay supported while living at home with structure, counselling, and peer connection.

Short-term rehab

Inpatient care that helps you step away from chaos and reset your recovery.

Relapse prevention

Ongoing therapy and planning support for people trying to stay sober.

Emergency rehab

Immediate admission when relapse puts your health or safety at risk.

What our clients say about their experience

Real stories of recovery and transformation

We’re proud to share stories from people who’ve walked this path, and from the families who supported them.

Ali Ademi

After years of trauma, addiction, and loss, Ali found the strength to rebuild his life through the support of a compassionate team, a sense of community, and a commitment to long-term healing.

Minh

After 32 years of addiction, Minh Pham found hope, healing, and a new path at The Hader Clinic. His journey is a testament to the power of community, compassion, and courage.

Peter El-Khouri

After multiple relapses, Peter found long-term recovery with Hader. Read how therapy, community and clinical care helped him reclaim his life.

Where you’ll find our programs and care

Our facilities and locations across Victoria

Our programs are delivered across two specialist facilities in Essendon and Geelong, each offering professional care in a supportive, private environment.


Inpatient Rehabilitation Program and Transitional Housing program

Essendon
150-152 Cooper St, Essendon VIC 3040

Hospital Rehabilitation Centre for 28-Day Withdrawal & Detox Program

Geelong
6-8 Townsend Road,St Albans Park VIC 3219

78%

of clients had no readmission within 12 months of completing their program.

79%

of clients had no readmission within 30 days, showing strong early relapse prevention.

82%

of clients reported feeling connected to their recovery goals after leaving the program.

94%

of clients said our staff understood them and supported their needs.

Our outcomes speak for themselves

What long-term recovery looks like here

There’s no perfect path, but the right support can change everything. We’ve built this program to help reduce the risk of relapse and support long-term recovery goals. These outcomes are proof that healing is possible.

You're not alone in this process

Trying to manage relapse on your own can feel like a losing battle. But you don’t have to carry it alone. We’ll help you find coping skills, structure, and support that actually stick.

Take a free online assessment

Take a quick, private quiz to see if rehab could help and explore safe support options.

Book a free chat

 Schedule a confidential call with a specialist at a time that suits you.

Call us now

 Speak to someone immediately for guidance and support.

Help is available and it’s more affordable than you think

Understanding the costs of recovery

We know cost is one of the biggest barriers to treatment. That’s why we break everything down clearly and help you explore every available funding option.

Rehab costs explained

We break down everything clearly, from upfront program costs to what’s included, so you can make informed decisions about your care.

Explore funding options

Funding options and support

You may be eligible for rebates, Super withdrawal, or funding assistance, and we’ll walk you through it all, step by step. Whether you’re dealing with alcohol addiction, alcoholism, or drug addiction, we’ll help you navigate your options.

Learn more about rehab costs
The people who walk this road with you

Meet the team that makes it possible

You’ll be supported by a team that includes people who’ve lived through addiction, as well as professionals who specialise in relapse prevention and long-term recovery. Many of us have made the decision to seek help after moments of shame, fear, or emotional collapse, and we know that recovering from addiction isn’t just about staying sober, but rebuilding life in all its dimensions.

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Learn who we are, how we work, and why we care

About The Hader Clinic

For decades, we’ve helped people facing substance use disorders and mental health challenges find safety, clarity, and hope, no matter how many setbacks they’ve faced.

It’s okay to ask for help for you or someone you love

Asking for help is a strength

Whether you’re at risk of relapse, supporting someone in crisis, or just feeling stuck, reaching out is the first step in reconnecting with what matters.

Rehab for myself

Confidential help for people struggling with substance use, relapse, or mental health.

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Rehab for a loved one

Guidance and support for family and friends worried about someone’s drug or alcohol use.

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Take the first step towards recovery

Talk to someone who understands

There’s no perfect moment to start — just a willingness to try. We’ll help you work through your concerns and take a step that feels possible, wherever you’re at.

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Answers to common questions

Frequently asked questions about relapsing

What does a relapse prevention plan actually include?

A relapse prevention plan is a living, personalised roadmap for how you’ll manage your recovery in real life, especially when things get hard. At The Hader Clinic, we build each plan with you, not for you. It’s based on your history, your risks, and your strengths. Your plan will include:

  • A clear list of your personal relapse triggers (people, places, routines, feelings).
  • Coping strategies you can use in the moment when things feel overwhelming.
  • A network of support professionals, peers, and loved ones you can reach out to.
  • Relapse prevention tools like self-talk reframes, grounding techniques, and daily routines that stabilise your mood and thinking.
  • A flexible structure that changes with you. What works now might need to be adapted later, and that’s okay.

We revisit this plan regularly in one-on-one sessions and peer group counselling, not as a checklist but as an honest conversation about what’s working, what’s not, and where we can better support you.

How can I tell if I’m about to relapse?

Relapse usually doesn’t start with using. It starts quietly, in the background of your thoughts, routines, and feelings. At The Hader Clinic, we help you spot those early signs before they take over. Warning signs can include:

  • You start avoiding support or skipping things that used to help, like meetings, calls, or daily structure.
  • Your thinking changes. You might catch yourself romanticising the idea of drinking or using, minimising the risks, or saying “just once won’t hurt.”
  • You feel emotionally flooded or disconnected, irritable, numb, restless, hopeless. And instead of talking about it, you withdraw.

If you notice these signs, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It means you’re in a risky moment, and that’s when your relapse prevention plan and support network matter most. We help you catch these moments early and work through them before they escalate.

How do you help clients manage cravings long-term?

Cravings are a normal part of recovery but they don’t have to control you. At The Hader Clinic, we focus on giving you the tools, awareness, and community to manage cravings over time. Long-term craving support includes:

  • Identifying your personal craving patterns and the triggers behind them.
  • Practising mindfulness, grounding, and self-talk strategies to reduce the intensity.
  • Learning how to surf the urge and acknowledge cravings without acting on them.

We also help you plan for high-risk moments and build lifestyle changes that reduce the frequency and power of cravings. These tools become part of your relapse prevention plan, alongside ongoing counselling, group support, and aftercare through our Hader at Home app.

What support is available after I leave residential care?

Leaving residential care doesn’t mean facing recovery alone. In fact, we believe that aftercare is just as important as inpatient rehab treatment. That’s why we offer:

  • Ongoing relapse prevention counselling, peer support groups, and structured check-ins.
  • Personalised aftercare plans tailored to your risks, lifestyle, and long-term goals.
  • Access to our outpatient programs, including the Hader at Home app, transitional housing, and weekly planning sessions.

We stay connected with you through every phase, helping you adjust your relapse prevention tools, rebuild confidence, and stay anchored in recovery. Many of our clients say the support they received after leaving care was the key to long-term sobriety.

I’ve relapsed more than once. Will your program still work for me?

Yes, and you’re not alone in that. Many of us have relapsed too. More than once. Relapse isn’t a failure; it’s feedback. It shows us what wasn’t working, what still hurts, and where we need more support. At The Hader Clinic, we meet you with compassion, not judgment. We revisit your relapse prevention plan, rebuild your support system, and help you work through the thoughts and triggers that led to this moment. No matter how many times you’ve tried, we’ll help you try again with new insight, new tools, and people who truly get it.

How can family and friends support someone after relapse?

It starts with understanding that relapse isn’t about weakness. It’s about pain. People who relapse aren’t giving up. They’re overwhelmed. The best thing you can do is stay open and connected. Gently encourage them to talk about what happened, without jumping to fix it. Offer to help them contact a treatment provider, go to a meeting, or revisit their relapse prevention plan. At The Hader Clinic, we also support families through education, counselling, and honest conversations about boundaries, enabling, and recovery. You don’t have to do this alone, either.

The most important thing is to stay connected. After a relapse, people often feel ashamed, scared, and alone. Your role isn’t to fix them. It’s to remind them they’re still worth loving, and that help is still possible. Listen without interrupting. Encourage them to reach out to a treatment provider. Set boundaries if you need to, but don’t shut them out. At The Hader Clinic, we also offer family counselling and support so you can look after your own wellbeing while staying involved in recovery.

Can I do relapse prevention without going back into rehab?

Yes. In fact, many people we support are living at home, working, or caring for others while still actively managing relapse risks. You don’t have to re-enter residential rehab to stay committed to recovery. We offer flexible options like outpatient rehab, peer support groups, and digital tools through the Hader at Home program. You can also join weekly relapse prevention planning sessions to stay grounded, supported, and proactive. Whether you’re coming out of a tough patch or simply need to feel more anchored, there are ways to reconnect without stepping away from your whole life.