Rehab for domestic violence and substance abuse

Yes. You can begin treatment even if you’re still living with someone who is hurting you. Many victims of domestic violence feel stuck, not just emotionally, but logistically. Recovery can still start, and we’ll help you do it safely. If you’re in immediate danger or need specialist support, call 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732), a 24/7 national helpline for people impacted by domestic and family violence.

If you’re in a dangerous situation, our team can help you:

• Connect with advocates for domestic violence safety planning and referrals
• Access programs like transitional housing for physical separation and therapeutic support
• Begin substance abuse treatment in a confidential environment that prioritises your wellbeing

We understand that addiction and abuse often overlap. Our team is trained to work with both. Even if you can’t leave right away, you can still seek treatment. We’ll help you plan your next steps with dignity and support, at your pace and on your terms.

If you’re wondering what rehab looks like in a safe, confidential setting, see our blog on what happens in rehab for a clear picture of the daily structure, therapy sessions, and support you can expect.

You are allowed to want help, even if your partner disagrees. Coercive control and emotional manipulation often keep people from accessing care. When someone tries to stop you from getting support, it may be part of a pattern of abusive behaviour.

At The Hader Clinic, you do not need anyone’s permission to enter treatment. Our admissions process is confidential, and we offer specific pathways for people experiencing partner violence and co‑occurring substance use. If you need safety‑focused support, our rehab for women or rehab for couples programs may be right for you.

If your situation is high‑risk, we can help you plan a safe, discreet entry into care, or you can speak to 1800 RESPECT for immediate guidance. For strategies on navigating resistance, see our guide on how to convince an addict to go to rehab.

Yes. If you’ve caused harm while under the influence or in crisis, we will still support you. Acknowledging your past and seeking change is a powerful first step — one that many clients have taken.

Substance use can lower inhibitions and fuel acts of violence. While addiction never excuses harm, it can be a key factor in what drives it. Our programs include:

• Trauma‑informed therapy to address emotional triggers and behavioural cycles
• Accountability pathways through our family program
• Dedicated substance addiction rehab for men

We offer a chance to do better — for yourself and for others.

Relapse is part of many people’s recovery journey. We don’t treat relapse as failure — we treat it as information. If you experience a setback during care, we reassess your needs, identify new risks, and strengthen your supports.

You will not be removed from treatment unless safety is at risk. Our team is trained to manage relapse in the context of substance use or mental health instability, especially when trauma or abuse are part of the picture. We provide structured relapse prevention planning, medication reviews, and extra sessions when needed.

Absolutely. We prioritise your safety, dignity, and right to privacy. Everything you share is protected.

We do not disclose your participation, history, or diagnosis without your consent — including to family, partners, or government services. Our facilities are discreet and our communication protocols are designed with your security in mind.

While you can’t bring your children to live at our facilities, you can stay in touch with them. We support meaningful, healthy connection throughout treatment — especially for women navigating recovery after violence or pregnancy, including those in our pregnant mother program.

We can help you:

• Maintain contact through scheduled calls or video chats
• Arrange supervised or in‑person visits (where clinically safe)
• Navigate the emotions that come with separation

Our family program also provides education and support for children and young people impacted by trauma and substance use.

You may have more options than you think. We offer multiple pathways to funding your treatment because addiction treatment should never be out of reach.

We can help you explore:

• Superannuation release for medical treatment
• Flexible payment plans
• Funding support for veterans and Aboriginal clients

Our team can also guide you through third‑party support options for those in dangerous situations or facing systemic barriers.

It’s devastating to watch someone you love suffer, especially if substance use or violence is involved. Even if they’re not ready to change, you can take steps for yourself.

Our family program offers emotional guidance and practical strategies. We can discuss interventions, or help you connect with services if abusive behaviour puts others at risk. You’re not powerless — even if they’re not ready.

If you’re unsure, ask yourself: “What am I trying to escape?” For many survivors of domestic abuse, substance use becomes a way to manage fear, memories, or emotional pain.

You may need integrated support if:

• You use alcohol or drugs to avoid trauma symptoms
• You’ve experienced violence (emotional, physical, sexual, or financial)
• You struggle to trust people, maintain relationships, or feel safe in your body

We provide assessment and treatment planning for substance use and mental health concerns, including PTSD, stress, and depression, and connect you with trauma‑informed services as part of care.